Accept that some people have no veracity. .

If we have to choose between our instincts and the implied role that a person has taken in our lives, we should choose our instincts.

When considering a relationship of any kind, practice the rule of three regarding the promise or commitment or response that the person makes to us, we should rely on our own any given moment.

     One lie, one broken promise, one neglected response maybe a misunderstanding.

     If it happened the second time, it might be a serious mistake on the person’s part.

     But the third time, he or she lies or broken a promise, or neglect us in any way or treat our feelings with indifference, that is intentional and the person is showing us his or her true devious self – believe it.  Deceit is the linchpin of conscienceless behavior.

It is better for us to cut our loss as soon as possible. Leaving might be hard but it would be easier and less costly now than later.

Compliments are lovely, especially when they are true and sincere but be careful of flattery. Flattery is the counterfeit charm; it appears to our ego in an unrealistic way. It is meant to massage our ego.

If necessary, we should redefine our concept of respect. Don’t confuse fear with respect.

Don’t join the game; intrigue is the sociopath’s tools. The best way to protect ourselves from this person is to avoid any kind of contact and communication.

We should question our tendencies to trust easily. Respect should be reserved for the kind and morally courageous. Pity – is another socially valuable response and it should be reserved for innocent people who are in genuine pain or who have fallen or misfortune.

If we find ourselves pitting someone who consistently hurt us or anyone else, who actively campaigns for our sympathy, chances are close to 100% that we are dealing with a person who has no integrity.